About the author: Regis Giles

Regis Giles is the creator and owner of Girls Just Wanna Have Guns.com and is a leading voice for Second Amendment rights, self-defense and conservation. Unafraid to speak her mind, Regis takes no prisoners. Her media appearances include: ELLE Magazine, Variety, The Daily Mail, ABC, CNN, CBS Miami, & Fox News.

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  • John Naylor

    Great advice Regis. Women like you will always attract real men.

  • pointdan

    God bless the Giles family . . . .

  • Johnny William Brown

    ¡Viva Hillary Clinton! ¡Viva Barack Obama! ¡Vivan los inmigrantes! ¡Vivan los derechos iguales del matrimonio! Nada que hacen aquellos ladrones, o en otras palabras republicanos, me deja sorprendido. Estos republicanos atroces y despreciables han cortado una andana de degradación y opresión a través del país. Ellos son tramposos y engañosos y nunca pueden ser confiados por sus mentiras. Nunca jamás. Estos republicanos atroces y despreciables han cortado una andana de degradación y opresión a través del país. Ellos son tramposos y engañosos y nunca pueden ser confiados por sus mentiras. Nunca jamás. Por ejemplo, Michelle Bachman, sin ninguna duda, es una rata estúpida y sucia de dos patas. Ella es un ejemplo del por qué no me asocio con los republicanos. Ella es muy racista e intolerante debido a un odio inherente y posee el odio que los republicanos llevan como un premio. Y el parlante de la turba de chusma que se llama el NRA, Wayne LaPierre, es un pequeño hombre tonto, delirante e ignorante ha sufrido por el síndrome de intestino irritable desde hace una década por lo menos. Su aguijón es pequeño y no puede recoger el polen de la flor. Por lo tanto, este pobrecito anda enojado y torturado. No hay duda de que durante las últimas horas de la noche, él se viste con los trapos viejos de su madre y hace cabriolas en círculos. Éste se cree el muy mujeriego, pero hay una muñeca inflable debajo de su cama la que es su única compañera de chaca chaca y cuchi cuchi. Un día muy pronto la enfermedad de casco y boca de la que sufre será la desaparición de este bobo.

    • http://www.facebook.com/people/Ed-Scott/100002103340101 Ed Scott

      Been delusional long?

      • Marlin208

        I think he is off his free meds.

    • TxPatrick

      Mucho Loco Juanny…….. :-)

    • cdoc

      You are obviously full of hatred yourself. I will just leave it at that because I refuse to donate much of my precious time to correcting idiots. Do us all a favor, Ir a morir.

      • red neck mcgillicutty

        Do me a favor: suck my cock, racist hater!

        • Marlin208

          I bet he wouldn’t be able to find it. There is small and then there is SMALL.

    • ort

      Beso ma culo

      • Shears_of_Atropos

        Beso is “I kiss”….. is that what you meant? Or Besa!, which means (you) Kiss…

        • ort

          lol. “Besa”, yes. ; )

    • Sharon

      I noticed the word racista. I guess that pretty well describes Y-O-U!!!!!

    • Charlie

      This is the U.S.A. WE THE PEOPLE speak and write in the english language, not in spanish language. Our language was decided when our country was being established german missed being our language by one vote, spanish was not in the our chosen language so posting on a website in the U.S.A. in spanish is just flat out disrespectful to WE THE PEOPLE of the U.S.A. .

      • NJRedDog

        Oh my god, this is hilarious. All the bad English grammar — thanks for this! Made my day!

        • Charlie

          This is a cynical ,ego boosting flip remark about grammar . Sorry that my grammar was not up to your standards . You really must be a dog

    • mac12sam12

      Get a job. Taxpayers are tired of supporting you Chico.

    • Johnny Geetar

      Sorry hoss, Welcome to America. We no espeaky burritospeak………

    • mesaman

      Muy caca, hombre. Vaya con Bammie to Mexico.

    • JustLurkin

      Hey idiota. Usted es un idiota de primera magnitud, y un mentiroso también.

  • Brian Bertha

    Just be yourself else you will wind up with someone that wants or thinks they can change you and that never works out OH I suppose its OK for girlymen who need a mama :-)

  • TxPatrick

    So young, so wise……. :-)

  • Everett

    Great article, your advice is spot on, so many have been playing silly games for so long that some of us have given up on looking. You represent a fine example of who a real man should be looking for. Glad to see that morality and character do count with those that are worthwhile. Wish that more women would have that attitude. You are a breath of fresh air, keep up the good work!

  • Julia

    Good list but here are three of my must haves: Intelligence – with it a couple can talk through and resolve any problem, without it you’re screwed. Kindness – a strong man with a kind heart can’t be beat. He’ll fight the monsters yet cradle your babies. Humor – laughter between a man and a woman is the glue that keeps them together.

  • craigmayberry

    I see the influence of a man in your upbringing. I used the Chinese water torture method on my daughter. Drip, drip, drip of golden nuggets of wisdom. Men are idiots until age 35, If a man says I love you on the first date he is a liar. A real man will lay down his own life for you or your children, it’s in his nature. You will know a real man by what he does not what he says. Real men observe, assess and then speak. When a real man speaks people listen.
    I have observed the idiots my grand daughters have brought around and I’m convinced that real men are hard to come by these days.

    • TBJWebmaster

      I have to say, the guys that my daughters (back in the day), my nieces and many other young women I know choose to hang around with mostly seem to be wishy-washy wimps without an ounce of character or ambition. “Ah, but he’s so sweet,” they all say.

      • sha49tn

        I’ve heard that one from my oldest granddaughters, ‘he’s so sweet’. And, all the time he’s a wimp. Yuck!

    • Julia

      “When a real man speaks people listen.”

      Reminds me so much of my husband. He wasn’t much into ‘chatting’, but when he spoke about something he had this uncanny ability to clear a path through all the garbage and go directly to the heart of the matter. Just one of the many things I admired about him.

  • http://www.survivingurbancrisis.com/ Silas Longshot

    ZZ Top!? Really! LOL, kinda like a string mop wearing shades and a floppy cowboy hat, dressed up by ‘men’s warehouse’. But, the rest is spot on. Like me an’ my Sweetie, celebrating 40 years together this very day.

    • paj

      The only counter I think is this – A man who is working, but is raising himself out of a bad situation, may not be able to afford the top-quality suits. I was just that, and as our situation allowed, I would buy the best we could afford. But at all times, my lady and our babies (now US Marines) were dressed first.
      We frequented the thrift stores, but my sons did NOT wear “holey jeans” or shirts!
      I recently looked at the suits that I had until just a year ago, and they are all thread bare, but clean, with multiple self repairs. And I have personally repaired many articles for my whole family.
      My bride and I are now getting ready to celebrate 24 years together in July.
      And I am very proud of how our sons select their mates and their best friends. My youngest is VERY picky (good for him), and has yet to meet a young lady that he even wants to date! I found it funny when our Daughter-in-law was telling us about how he and his brother were talking about how to do the first talk with a lady he doesn’t know.
      Regis, I enjoy reading your articles, and my wife and I especially loved this one. Keep up the good work. God bless

    • Shears_of_Atropos

      Hang in there, Junior. Yesterday was our 49th, and I’m doing supper tonight. Ours is an equal opportunity kitchen. And, for a Valentine’s Day gift some years back, I bought her an AR-15. She owns it and I don’t have one. We get along. She has 2 compact Star PD .45’s. and I use a SIG 2340 in .40. But we agree on most things. Thank God. She knows where I sleep!

      I sometimes introduce her to friends as “my first wife”.

      • ort

        Excellent! Happy Anniversary! Our 17th is coming up and I’m thinking a Springfield xd-m .40 might be a good gift (to receive, that is) : D
        Wish I had an AR 15, though. Good job!

        Gotta start dropping hints to hubby……..

        • Shears_of_Atropos

          He is the grasshopper…. you are the sage…. repeat after me!

          If you’re fishing, though, you might want to look at the SIG. The internal safeties and the decocking lever are worth a look. Good workmanship. Whether you go with Springfield, SIG, Kimber, Walther, or certain others…. you will be well armed. Good luck.

          FWIW: I drove wife crazy about wanting a 10″ tablet/phone. She sulked and fretted until after it arrived…. and I presented it to HER as her Anniversary gift. A Samsung Note 10. She’s afraid to touch it…..

          • ort

            Slick!! Kudos for ingenuity. lol.

            Hubby pulled something similar. 3 weeks before my knee surgery, he brought home an iPad. He was using it constantly. I thought it was one from his place of work. After 2 weeks, I expressed an interest in the iPad, as someone I worked with had one. As soon as I mentioned it, he shut the cover, presented it to me, and said “I bought this for you so you wouldn’t have to struggle up the stairs on crutches, just to use your desktop. I was hoping you took an interest in it, I’ve been using it in front of you for weeks now!”

            What a wonderful man!!!

          • http://www.facebook.com/people/Ed-Scott/100002103340101 Ed Scott

            will armed?

            say what?

        • Brian C. Stark

          My lovely wife and I have, and love both. The XDm is her carry piece and the factory stock Colt AR makes clover leaves at 25 meters. I’m blessed with a wife who love guns and works to put them in our budget. Wow!

      • http://www.facebook.com/people/Ed-Scott/100002103340101 Ed Scott

        who is your second?

        • Shears_of_Atropos

          That she doesn’t exist is irrelevant. The one I have now is still my first.

  • Ligea

    Regis, all right on target (pardon the pun). I agree with Julia, but I think intelligence is relative to the individuals and the pair should be intellectually compatible (it’s not just choosing the smartest guy you can find). I’ve been startled at how many men I meet are very arrogant and self-centered. Thank you for putting my own thoughts into writing in such concise manner.

  • tsitala

    Great advice.

  • Oldclimber

    There are fundamental flaws in this “quick look” inherent to most women’s perception. 1 – Confidence ? Yes but a man does not get such without a humble (as in not arrogant) sense of accomplishment in something HIS soul mate finds valuable. That simple statement shows the many, many wrong paths a man can take, and and frequently does, in finding the woman who can tolerate the worst in him while loving the best. Above all, confidence is not an act, it is a state of being.
    2 – Class comes naturally, or is easily correctable by the right woman given the roots of confidence. No humble man ever thinks he’s perfect, and no man who opens his heart to a woman will turn away from honest correction. Men need correction from women, but should not tolerate the now almost universally popular “man bashing as fun” attitude of the “modern woman”.
    3 – Virtue is the universal value that applies to everyone, in the form of “Do unto others…” and underlies all business, social and intimate interaction. A man that does not understand this has no sense that the deck is stacked against him both during the search for and finding of a compatible woman. After all, unlike with men, the worst things a woman can do to a man are largely non-indictable.
    4 – Desperation shows a baseline character of cowardice, and most women have not bought into “gentle” men, as opposed to gentlemen, in the long term, yet. But then there is the flaw in women that they are very strongly drawn to the “fashion” of whatever is “new”. And a man should see that “gentle” can include the proper mix of firmness with compassion.
    5 – Look sharp, outward evidence, a signpost if you will, advertising features 1 through 4. It is your plumage. It shows your health. Your wealth. And your intent. Remember that the fakers of substance know this, they have studied and majored in the appearance of substance. If you are serious about finding a woman to spend your life on and with, find the faker as your enemy, and cut him no legal slack. That is where we men excel, the kind of combat (yes, combat) that goes a long way to insuring the faker pooping in the pool of women (and thereby, souring them on the approach of men) have less to display.

    Enough for now

    • Shears_of_Atropos

      You remind me of the cartoon Non Sequitur, in which Joe Pyle is being considered as a potential mate. She (1) has a questionnaire!!! Key question: Complete this sentence: “The perfect man is ____________”.

      Joe thought about it a moment and finally answered “an oxymoron” and, before the echoes died, she was all over him.

      • Oldclimber

        I guess I don’t get it, not having read the cartoon. “All over him” as in romantic action or all over him as in a wood chipper on a branch, though my preliminary vote would lean towards the wood chipper ? There has only been one perfect man, crucified 2,000 years ago, and by the way, despite what revisionist “Christianity” would try to promote, his relationship with women, as with men, was reported to be, and believed to be, both Platonic and Agape.

        • Shears_of_Atropos

          She smothered him in kisses, causing another guest at the diner to say “I didn’t think the food here was that good!”. Next day someone said to him “I didn’t know you were engaged…..” He replied… :Neither did I!”

        • http://www.facebook.com/people/Ed-Scott/100002103340101 Ed Scott

          that is why he answered oxymoron. there is no such thing, just as there is no such woman.

    • http://www.facebook.com/people/Ed-Scott/100002103340101 Ed Scott

      do women need correction from men?

      are you a woman to hold such thinking?

    • http://www.facebook.com/people/Ed-Scott/100002103340101 Ed Scott

      actually women are drawn to the badboy dangerous men.

  • http://www.facebook.com/barbjeanpatton Barb Patton

    Last but not least — only have eyes for one girl (at a time) and know how to balance a check book with a good bank balance.

    • http://www.facebook.com/people/Ed-Scott/100002103340101 Ed Scott

      my bank always has a good (positive) balance.

      I insist upon it, before I will do business with them.

  • http://www.facebook.com/adrian.vance1 Adrian Vance

    You are dead on right about confidence: I have had several women tell me that was was attracted them to me and I never pushed them too hard. I just waited until I heard, “Would you like to stay over tonight?” I never took very long…

    See The Two Minute Conservative via Google or: http://adrianvance.blogspot.com When you speak ladies will swoon and liberal gentlemen will weep.

  • Marlin208

    Being more than and inch deep helps too. Shallow pansies need not apply.

  • Mike Nuss

    Trust, honesty, and communication, is a perfect recipe. With out anyone of these ingredients and the relationship is doomed from the beginning!!!


    I agree on everything but you lost me on ZZ Top. Those guys and looking neat do not belong in one sentence, LOL. They look like the dregs of either a biker gang whose members are missing half their teeth or a meth lab staff. I realize it’s part of their routine but 2-ft. long beards you could hide the Unabomber in are not neat or attractive.

    • Jason

      She was addressing the popular song that ZZ Top sings that says “Every girl’s crazy about a sharp dressed man”, not the band member themselves.

      Frankly, I think the ZZ Top band members look really cool too.

  • slickzip

    WELL SAID !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • Breeze13

    Intelligence, humor, and a Harley works pretty good. :)

    • John Kugelfischer

      see, you’re one of the shallow, glib ones that we use as c-m dumpsters.

      • Breeze13

        Oh, let me guess, IF you ride, you have a Honda.

  • Shears_of_Atropos

    Knowing that a hand-loaded 7mm Remington express (7mm-06) is better than a 30-06 isn’t a bad starter. Knowing how to make a decent cocktail that isn’t based on Coca-Cola or Capt. Morgan Rum is a plus. And yes, you can open the door for her. And if something really crappy happens, like some dolt ran into your parked car while you were in Chez Louis for crepes, a simple “Well, will you look at that!” will suffice. Carry on, and don’t sweat the small stuff.

    • 2War Abn Vet

      Not many things in life are better than a .30-06!

      • Shears_of_Atropos

        This is. The original 30-06 was limited by the metal in the original ’03, which was 48.000 lbs. With a modern rifle, you can go to 52,000. I load the 7mm-06 to 52,000 and use a more slender 7mm bullet, boat tailed, and get point blank (+/- 1 “) to 400 yds. In my Ruger #1, that means I’m within 200 fps of the 7mm Rem Mag, with half the recoil. I do not hunt deer….. I simply execute them. They never take a step. Safe landings, Airborne. I have 2 in, one SF,Ab, LC, one Medical, Col. thank you for your service… I did only 5 years.

        • 2War Abn Vet

          One word – versatility.
          Here’s another – Garand.

  • sha49tn

    One thing to add to the list is, he needs to be a believer in God, & God’s ways of life. When a man is moral, & has principles that agree with God’s principles, then he is very much a man.

  • Phoenomagus

    Please forward this to talk show host Mike Gallagher

    • mesaman

      I was thinking more of the afternoon “Talk” show with Golda, Baba, and all. You know the one; PMS in the PM.

  • PatCindyCunningham

    Yep! Men are becoming Pansies and Girls are using there Figures and Looks to gain financially at an all time high. Just go on You Tube, Women are stripping and even worse. Spring Break has become X rated and College Dorm Parties are sex contests, video taped. It won’t be long before sex will make the Olympics. With the male Population turning into Pansies and the Female Population becoming a huge Reality Show, the future seems very uncertain for the Family Unit in the Future.

  • mesaman

    I know why. All the good women have already been taken. The only ones to choose from now are transexuals waiting go from using a urinal to using a bidet. (Before you commence firing, this is sarcasm)/

  • Don

    as an almost 57 year old man, I find it interesting that women in my age group will look past me because I am not “tall, dark & handsome” Nature made me the way I am, so I deal with it. a lot of women as so shallow you can see right through them, and I suppose a lot of men are the same…I have tried numerous times to get a woman to like me, but they for some reason cant see the guy in front of them as the forest is clouding the view, in other words, why settle for this one, they might be someone cuter, more muscular, thinner, richer etc…. But I still cling to the hope that out there some where is a lady who will accept me for what who how I am , and if not, then so be it. most women need to realize while we older guys are no longer the “life guard hunks, they are no longer the teenage bikini babes either

    • Oldclimber

      Dear Don, the whole thing in a nutshell is your line, “…get women to like me”. Let me ask you, would you like yourself better if women liked you ? If you possibly don’t like you, why should anyone else, especially herd creatures ? Have you fallen for the “modern” concept of men as defined by women ? Why do you think there is such a gap in male-female relations current ? Start from the evidence and work to the facts, don’t start from “what everyone thinks” and try to fit the evidence to it. “Everyone” is WRONG. That is why relationships for people of our age to 30 years younger are in such a mess.

      • airemechanic

        Old climber, I present the image of what you see is what you get. as the old marine saying goes, not as lean, not as mean…… only difference is I was in the army….I have worked very hard to get to where I am. been through a nasty divorce, have built a reasonably respectable business, own my own home, survived bad accident where I broke my neck, and cancer twice…. but I still chug along, as I am not a quitter…..but some of these shallow women see only the outside flaws, not what is inside, ya know the stuff that truly counts….. over the years, I have dated women who were stunningly beautiful, or so damn ugly you would have to tie a steak to her leg so the dog would play with her, thin & over weight, rich & poor. but what matters most is like I said ….what is the heart /soul/mind…… most women today just want that trophy, and refuse to invest the time to find true love.. I am over it, just want a down to earth good woman nothing more, nothing less. sadly I just don’t believe she exists anymore

      • Don

        Since that last post, I actually did meet someone who has the values, and integrity that is missing from most women out there. could not be happier, this lady & I are almost two peas in a pod, we like about 98% of the same things, have a very warped sense of humor, and not only does she dish it out…. she can take it back…..

  • DJ_Fisher

    I happen to think that most women are “good” women. I have lived a very interesting and intense life and you can see this in my eyes. I have a tendency to be an imposing figure even though I’m not tall. Women do find me attractive under most circumstances. I just have a tendency to be selective and am looking for a woman as well rounded as myself. I might not find a woman like this who is still in her child bearing years much to my sadness for I would love to father at least one boy and one girl. I know that they would be a blessing to this world when I’m gone. It may be God’s plan for my life to remain childless so that I can be honest and do the work of the Father without someone to be used as blackmail against me. The big picture makes these things seem so insignificant Laying my personal feelings aside to gain forever is more than a good deal anyway. I don’t even know why I’m posting this, it just seemed appropriate.

    • http://www.facebook.com/people/Ed-Scott/100002103340101 Ed Scott

      eyes? i never got past that.

  • runstowin

    Part and parcel of the Pansie Man phenomenon, is the tremendous emphasis and support for the girls and women in our society to be, fireMen, policeMen, congressMen, mailMen, serviceMen, businessMen, rifleMen, clergyMen, workMen, draftsMen, dairyMen, journeyMen, etc. When woman act as men, and get supported and praised for doing so, it leaves no good place for real men to go. Real women want a man who is bold and strong and who is a leader, how can a man be all of these when his boss is a young lady who is 10 years his junior, and goes out of her way to let him know She is the boss, and never passes up an opportunity to humiliate and emasculate him in front of his fellow workers. I could go on and on and on, but I believe I have made my point.

  • AFZoomieTim

    I love Regis!
    Not just because she is an extremely attractive female, who loves to hunt, fish or whatever, as long as it’s outdoors! I would also bet my next paycheck that she is one hell of a good cook!
    She seems tough as nails, while being very feminine. A true companion/equal partner for any manly, man! She is blunt and honest AND kind!
    She has very good genes. I respect her dad, Doug Giles very much! It seems to me that he has done everything right in raising a wonderful, beautiful, self-reliant young lady.
    Congrats to you Regis. I’m 63 years old, and from the OLD school family beliefs. I almost thought morals and strong women were a thing of the past. You and your father help restore my belief in family, country AND, not least of all, GOD!!
    Thanks for all you do, and God bless our troops, our veterans, our families and, especially; GOD BLESS AMERICA!!

    • paulie2


  • Johnny William Brown

    Los republicanos siempre andan aterrorizados por una mujer inteligente. Ellos prefieren a sus mujeres con el serrín en las cabezas y mucha bobería que cae adelante de la boca. Estas mujeres republicanas tontas han sido observadas en público con el caviar pegado en sus dentaduras postizas brillantes. Ellas murmuran, se ríen tontamente, y se menean de una velada a la siguiente sin rumbo ni fe. Mientras tanto, Hillary Clinton ha dedicado su vida entera a la bien de la humanidad a fin de tratar de aliviar el sufrimiento y la opresión del pobre. Esta señora increíblemente inteligente ha trabajado infatigablemente de modo que aquellos sin una voz pudiesen ser oídos. Durante el curso de la historia del mundo, una mujer poderosa e intelectual ha sido temida por los hombres de mentes estrechas y pequeños apéndices. Y por lo tanto hoy en día el partido republicano ridículo tiene un ataque de caspa en plena calle en frente de todos. ¡Viva Hillary Clinton! Siempre digo que no hay nada que me complacería más que ver a esta dama como nuestro primer presidente femenino. Sin embargo hasta la garganta dolida y con inutilidad y comportamiento idiota, estos republicanos ignorantes seguirán llorando sobre esta retórica tosca. Pronto nosotros los votantes americanos estaremos bastante hartos de esta turba de chusma republicana. Y el próximo año, les daremos una patada al callejón.

    • Spikeygrrl

      “Press 2 for English.”

      Dude, if you’re writing for American readership, PLEASE write it in American Standard English! If you want to write in Spanish, please post to a specifically Spanish-speaking OR specifically bilingual board.

    • Demon2Zero .

      Mida pendejo, it’s clear to everyone you speak English. You’re not fooling anyone. All your little 미친색끼 tirade proves is you’re an arrogant prick. So, if you would kindly post in English, manjgarr, we’d appreciate it. Also, posting on some young lady’s blog to insult her, in some south-of-the-border patois insult to the Spanish language is just plain shabby.

      Love and kisses,
      US Army SOF

    • mesaman

      Press “1” to flush JWB down the Mexican toilet.

      • http://www.facebook.com/people/Ed-Scott/100002103340101 Ed Scott


  • Spikeygrrl

    Not all conservative women are into “shooting and the outdoors.” Expand your horizons to conservative women who prefer other forms of recreation and you’ll find that your pool of prospects widens DRASTICALLY.

    If, on the other hand, it’s the shooting and outdoors which is the draw, rather than THE conservative/libertarian outlook, then your fix is EASY: find shooting ranges and “adventure vacations” which have a history of attracting female participants. This is DIRT-SIMPLE: 1) Use your favorite search engine for “co-ed = [insert your favorite activity HERE].” 2) Check out any/all results on Yelp or another similar consumer-ratings site. 3) If the consumer ratings look good, GO THERE and meet the women!

    It is idiotic to expect conservative/libertarian women to come to you unbidden; we’ve all been scalded so badly by the social upheavals of the last few decades to BLINDLY trust ANY man. So — and now I see that I should have put this first — before you even start on all this, pay a licensed Private Investigator the typical $50-150 to do a comprehensive database search of your personal records (they have access to databases we mere unwashed civilians can’t log into.) If there are any UNJUSTIFIED large blemishes on your record, pay whatever it takes to correct them.

    This is NOT AT ALL what dating was like “in my day”…(sigh). But in this “Catfish” world (look it up: Catfish the TV Show AND Catfish the Movie) more and more women — WHATEVER their politics may be! — who are well-educated and succeeding in their careers may date you once or twice “blind”…but before getting even REMOTELY serious will pay a P.I. to run down your records.

    • http://www.facebook.com/people/Ed-Scott/100002103340101 Ed Scott

      co ed “sex”.

      Thanks for the advice.

  • usmc1063

    Okay guys listen up. This Lady knows what she is talking about. How do I know? I tried, I failed, but in the end I learned.

  • ADRoberts

    Just a thought. Dress and looks are superficial. If that is all you see, you are missing the most important part. At the end of decades together, it is not the looks, the money, the clothes that are holding the relationship together. It is the SPIRIT of the man or woman. And if you haven’t figured it out yet, people who FOCUS on looks and ego will come to the point where they want younger, prettier, richer, (John Kerry did that) and the best of your life will have been used up.
    You want GOOD MAN? Start with making sure he is a Christian, not just a god fearing man. And I don’t mean just a nominal Christian. I mean a real one.
    I am 65 and have been married for 39 years. But I can tell you that I would NOT attract your attention and would probably not want it. Unless you change, you will not attract a “til death do us part” kind of guy.

  • Starbrander

    I Had A Magnetic With A Girl Approaching Me…..I Told Her I’m Not Lonely,I Just Would Appreciate A Little Time To Hang Out With A Female…She’s 25 Year Younger But I Keep Myself In Good Shape. I Gave Her My Number, Was Called In 45 Minutes

    • http://www.facebook.com/people/Ed-Scott/100002103340101 Ed Scott

      way to go.

      was it mkj?

  • MKJ

    One thing on here that is innaccurate in my book is that the male must be the “alpha”. There can only be one alpha per every (how many) men. Some equate “leadership” with masculinity. Wisdom, self-management, prudence are virtues that women are happy to see in a man, regardless of whether or not he is a “leader”. Some leaders are not very good men, either, even if they manage to lead others.

    • http://www.facebook.com/people/Ed-Scott/100002103340101 Ed Scott

      sounds like you are a feminist who thinks the female must be the alpha.

    • Shears_of_Atropos

      I’d rather be the Omega dawg of Seal 6 than the Alpha of Hillary’s staff.

  • MKJ

    I would rather date a man of limited means, who knows how to live within his means, then a guy who makes lots of $ and blows it all. A guy who must have every tool, every toy, an expensive gaming computer or home theatre, speakers the size of Stonehenge as I heard described once, but whose house, garage and yard are a shambles, he breaks and wastes his things, and doesn’t have $ if he needs dental work or car work he can’t do himself, because he spent it all on toys, status symbols, and self-gratification, etc. is nothing but an overgrown boy. Guys who put vacations and toys on credit cards. Someone who is obsessed with his going bald and spends money, potions, etc on trying to get it back, or gets hair removal done. Someone who is resistant to wearing a suit or dress clothes to a wedding or funeral. Someone who loans money to people or gets involved with business schemes with people that cost him $.
    All of these are EMBARRASSING.

    • http://www.facebook.com/people/Ed-Scott/100002103340101 Ed Scott

      for you?

  • MKJ

    Oh I forgot firearms, there are men who will buy a new gun when their roof is caving in or their children are in rags.

    • http://www.facebook.com/people/Ed-Scott/100002103340101 Ed Scott

      mkj, please show proof of your assertion.

  • http://www.facebook.com/people/Trisha-Holmeide/100000669641562 Trisha Holmeide

    Thanks for sayin’ like it is (and has been) for “real” women when it comes to choosing a mate–far too many of our young men have been totally feminized (no wonder young women try lesbianism with such a drought of respectable young men now-a-days). I’ve only seen one of my son-in-laws get anywhere near what I would call a “real” man, and so three of my four daughters are going it alone rather than be stuck with duds as companions.

  • gsreagan

    The real manhood mantra began going down hill in the mid 1960s. Most males born after 1950 were tricked into believing they were hot stuff and the hipster generation put them on steroids. Most males born before 1950 were taught about life from the generation called “Americas Greatest”, those that survived the horrific war against Nazi tyranny, communism and imperialism that murdered millions of innocent people, in addition to enduring the worst weather conditions for over a decade due to extreme drought. The Wall Street crash of that time didn’t help the situation. These people had seen and lived it all. Even though my farming family were all Democrats, they were all very conservative and of the Christian faith. Nothing like I am seeing today.

  • Johnny William Brown

    Los republicanos han hecho una vida de decir muchas mentiras ostensibles y han deformado la verdad en cualquier manera posible. Ellos no tienen rival en su reino de imbéciles. Por ejemplo la única preocupación de una mujer republicana es la búsqueda de algunos bombachos de diseñador para que sus hombres puedan guardarles como el ganado. Esta turba de chusma me da asco. Y en cuanto a los perdedores, Mitt Romney perdió la elección por ser un perdedor eterno. Ahora él y su esposa sonsa pueden pasar sus días echando sapos y culebras contra los inmigrantes, la gente gay, los afroamericanos y los demás que no poseen tanta lana como estos dos ladrones.

    • Demon2Zero .

      Hey. Take your bastardized version of a real language elsewhere, scumbag. Why don’t you go after the Spaniards for centuries of racism & slavery, huh? Cowards, sycophants, and thieves. That’s all you are until you call out the real slavers of your cultures.

    • Shears_of_Atropos

      Si, es claro que tu sabes nada…… absolutamente nada.

  • mandarin334

    Or, you could just move overseas and stop losing hair trying to impress an idiotic American woman. They aren’t worth it.

    • Demon2Zero .

      I have two foreign Ex’s. One was a cheating skeeze from Korea, the other a stuck up “horsey girl” from West Midlands, England who threw tantrums when she didn’t get exactly her way.

      I am now happily dating a former cheerleader from a small Michigan town, who is loving, fun, smart as hell, and can still do a backflip at 40+ years old.


  • Johnrambo1

    It helps to have a giant dick and grips of money too. Like me.

    • http://www.facebook.com/people/Ed-Scott/100002103340101 Ed Scott

      is you moochelle, or is you vick?

  • http://www.facebook.com/people/Ed-Scott/100002103340101 Ed Scott

    I always liked kantkiss Neverkleen, my self.

  • Johnny William Brown

    Sin ninguna duda somos una nación de inmigrantes cuya herencia cultural y ancestral es por lo tanto diversa e inmensa. Siempre he dicho ¡Vivan los inmigrantes! Nadie es ilegal y a mí no me importa ni me interesa la chusma que cree así. Y lo bueno es que todavía hay espacio para todos y trabajo pendiente para aquellos con ganas de ganar una buena vida. Debemos seguir luchando contra la opresión y la exclusividad las cuales son defendidas por el partido político republicano. Debemos luchar para derribar el racismo. Siempre daré la bienvenida a todos los inmigrantes y no me rajaré en cuanto a este tema.

  • Bob

    Anything at all new here?…thought for a minute I was reading an Abby column

  • covert1969

    Men who are confidant, are assertive, but not agresive and who are steadfast in their beliefs are what I have found that women seek. That alpha male who knows who he he is but has nothing to prove to others !

  • interestedobserver2

    I’m guessing your advice is being greeted with blank stares by the basement dwelling troglodytes that felt it necessary to ask for it in the first place.

    I mean, really, did you say anything that shouldn’t have already been self-evident to anyone with a modicum of common sense in the first place? Or, to put it terms those who had to ask might be better able to understand; “D’oh!”

  • http://www.facebook.com/terry.corcoran2 Terry Corcoran

    Women have been brainwashed in this country to hitch up with either a “boyfriend”, a sleaze who just uses them, or a “husband”, a wimp who washes the dishes and stays home with the kids, even if it means the payment on the second Volvo. Pussie$ are in style. If you have two worthless college degrees, are curious about being a kweer, and let your spouse make ALL your decisions for you, you are the perfect mate. Don’t forget your pink necktie, either. It IDs you as a perfect candidate for strap-on sex. Got a good Divorce Lawyer? SHE DOES…..

  • SoRight

    well with so many loser women that are out there nowadays with their ATTITUDE PROBLEM who would want to meet them anyway.

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